Characteristics of an Emotionally Healthy Partner

  • Shares in the decision - making with you
  • Knows oneself and is comfortable being alone
  • Accepts you for who you are, not for how you look
  • Has many of the same values as you do
  • Is able to express anger without being violent or abusive
  • Is able to work through conflict by talking
  • Doesn’t expect perfection from you
  • Is a good listener and communicates well
  • Takes responsibility for what he/she says and does
  • Doesn’t rush into the relationship, but moves step by step into being more intimate
  • Accepts when you spend time away with your friends
  • Asks permission before touching you or being sexual
  • Has supportive friends other than you
  • Makes and keeps commitments